Well I think it is alittle of both (past and present)! If she does remember something from before than it could be causeing her to clig to you and causeing her to have nightmares about going back! I was a little over 2yrs when my dad got full custody of me! Before that I was with my mother (she was a drugie)! She was bruning me with cigarettes and making me carry drugs in my diaper(just in case she got stoped by the cops)! Now that being said I don't remember it, but on a subconsiuos leave I do! B/c to this day I am deathly afraid for anyone to come near me with a cigarette! Even if they are not come at me in a violante way! I still freak out! Just let her tell you what is wrong and if she doesn't watch her actions! She could be showing you something and you not realize it! Anyway just thought I would try to help!
Paula |