He's not spiteful - dog's don't have that reasoning ability but he very well might have dementia. Read about sundowning and some of the things dogs with brain problems do. Also, he could have something the vet just hasn't found. Dogs don't just change their behavior for no reason or to get even with or spite people. Changes of behavior are routinely recognized by experienced dog experts and handlers and trainers as a cry for help. Google the term "my dog's behavior has changed radically". Our little dogs have no way to talk to and tell us when life is throwing them curves and all they can do is react poorly to things happening around them as their health or lifestyle is going wrong for them. But I wouldn't say I hate him - which of course you don't - you're just worried and puzzled. I would understand that he's in trouble and needs your understanding and help. You are his only voice now and must find out what is wrong and help him deal with it. I'll bet when you find out what is really wrong, you will realize underneath his trouble, he's the same sweet family member you've longed loved.
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