Have you checked Meetup.com? You can search for 'small dog meet up'. Maybe ask a local groomer/dog boutique or even start your own meet up at a dog park.
I know how you feel, I would love to attend meet ups and they do them in Dallas and Houston but I live right between the two
The only KY yter I know of is member 'Lisa and Pic', she is very sweet and may be able to answer you better
