I'm in the same boat..it's frustrating. Bella doesn't bark when she has to go & sometimes when I get up to take her to go, she's already went. I'm really frustrated now because all of a sudden she's not peeing on the pad but on her bed! I don't get this...I thought that they don't pee where they sleep. So I've made the crate smaller, but still she pees on her bed! I need some advice too... Going nuts