I know this was a seriuos post, but... when i saw that your hubby had that POO stuck on his back in the middle of the night, I started to laugh! He seemed to take it well, but I could see mine having a melt down and banning dogs from our bed FOR LIFE!( which here would mean a few days
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Grats on figuring out what she was upset about. I hope she does better soon, and stops pooing where she isn't supposed to poo.