Growling is causing a bit of a disagreement in my household. Last night, Sam was curled up in his usual spot behind my legs on the couch. The 2 year old came in and wanted to love on him. At first it was a very low semi whine/growl. I told her that was his way of telling her to leave him alone. She pushed the issue and wanted to give him a hug; the growl escalated to warning pitch. I had to use a harsh tone and physically push S away from him.
Hubby wanted me to punish Sam for growling, and I don't think it's right. My daughter needs to learn what 'back off' means, whether I say it or Sam does. I've never let it go to the point of him trying to nip at her, but it's always a concern. DH would hit the roof.
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