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Originally Posted by ladyjane  I cannot believe this "expert" is saying that a person being stalked would not converse with the stalker and/or have sex with him/her.
Even IF he was not afraid, it does NOT mean she was not stalking him. WTF .. this is making me crazy. |
I know, she seems to be excusing Jodi's behavior of never writing anything about Travis' abuse or telling anyone about it and says that women who are abused seldom report it, but when Travis says he’s extremely fearful and complains about being stalked, she dismisses it because he didn't report it and he continued to see her. To me, this is such a double standard that she lost any credibility of being unbiased.
Good point, you can be stalked without even being aware of it, it’s still stalking behavior. She seems to be defining stalking behavior as to what it leads the victim to do. If they don't report it or file restraining orders, it's not stalking. I would guess that men are much less likely to do these things anyway.