Honestly, I think the tone of some of the responses here have been a little aggressive. I wasn't trying to be mean to anyone and talk down or anything like that. This is a horrible situation and I'm trying to make the best decision. I don't think just jumping into to surgery without researching the facts is as bad as some people are making it out to be. I'm going to get a second opinion tomorrow from another vet. Obviously not leaving it like it is. Wish people would be a little more understanding. I'm heartbroken for my boy.