I will be watching for answers, because I don't have a clue. I mean, when you are ALWAYS there...it's hard "not to be there" ya know? lol
Shelby was like because I was with him 24/7 for the first year and half of his life. When I went back to work, I was so worried - and he did cry sometimes (according to my mom), but he gradually got better and realized that Lord willing, I come back