OK friends,I am so upset at my husband

last night my little female got her topknot and barrett caught in the bedskirt

I don't know what he was thinking,if in fact the brain was engaged

but instead of waking me up,sence 4 hands are better than 2,or if 4 eyes are better than 2,or if turning on the light is better than going blind,to release her he cut off her topknot

..I jumped all over him,asking why he didn't get me envolved or at least why he didn't cut the bedskirt instead [$14.95] 5years ago..and he says "I don't ever do anything to your satisfaction",and I answered "of cource you dont,when your brain is not engaged",now I have a beautiful little girl that looks like someone ran over her with the lawnmower,I know it will grow out in time,but it will never have that cute black frosting again,she looks like someone turned her into a blond when I wasn't looking,now she has maybe 1/2 inch on the top of her head,he cut it all the way down to the rubberband..do men think like we do,or am I expecting too much?