Boy do I see pic # 1 here often enough. lol But pix # 2 is so 'perfect'...what a cutie he is! I am not sure I could improve on the advice already given, but I understand your frustration. Some of the trouble may be your 'mental attitude'...your 'guilt level'...and he 'senses' it and plays it up...big time, from the sounds of it. Your mental approach being 'flat'...matter-of-fact...and the repetition everyone else has said may just be what is needed. Good luck!