I met my hubby online but it wasn't on a dating site so I can't help. I'm so happy Bobbi can help you out!
This is what happened in my case...I was just going thru a divorce from my 1st hubby and it was when AOL was new and the "big thing". I was online in my new apartment and I got an Instant Message pop up that said, "Hellow"
I mean..c'mon! How can you not answer that?!