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Originally Posted by PrinceJJ  Thanks for the welcome 
I didn't mean to make you both cry, I hope you had a Kleenex at hand, haha. I was wondering whether it was my mind playing games, but the feeling of closeness and of not being alone is making me think otherwise. Me and JJ were inseperable, and a part of me insists that we still are - maybe not physically, but spiritually. I've had paranormal experiences in the past when I was younger, I saw my aunt, both grandmothers, and a few people who I didn't recognise, but never an animal. When I saw JJ, I felt so comforted and that I wasn't really alone. I'm getting a lump in my throat just typing this!  |
Everyone has different opinions and thoughts about these kind of experiences. Whether it is our minds allowing us an avenue in which to process the feelings of loss and emptyness we are experiencing, you just remember it matters not! YOU were indeed comforted by these events, and you are NOT alone. Some people are more receptive than others, and I think you are probably very sensitive to these things......kind of like an antenna that is capable of drawing in a different frequency. I have experienced these things sooooo many times, it is quite the norm for me.....I expect it to happen! I have also noticed that as I become more able to tolerate the loss of the pet or person, and the pain in your heart is not so ragged and raw, when thinking of these people and pets and memories they have left us with, is more comforting and soothing, my visits become less and less frequent.....which I personally dont like!! I want them here around me, I want to see evidence of their presence, smell their perfume or pipe smoke, actually feel them sit on my bed, see them waiting for me at my bedroom door at bed time.....So I dont care if it is imagination or craziness or actual spirits, I know what I personally believe, and I warmly treasure those moments. You enjoy your visits from what I feel is the spirit of one that was soooooo close to you during life, they return to comfort you in your grief, to let you know they are whole and happy and doing fine, and they want you to know they are always present in that spirit dimension, and when you are most sensitive to that frequency, you can draw them in and near to you, and that is when you see them, smell them, feel them, hear them call your name.
Allow me to share one little event....I was always a mischievous child,always pulling pranks and tricks on people....and anytime my father would get angry with me, he would address me with a stern "JUDY ANN!".....just a week or so ago, some members will remember I pulled a rather mischievous little harmless trick.....and I can assure you, that night as I was typing my third entry into what I thought was great fun, I clearly smelled that wonderful pipe smoke and heard my father sternly call out to me, "JUDY ANN !!!" I had to laugh, and I promised him I would stop, which I did! I embrace these moments and they continue to give me great comfoort.)