Thanks for coming back to post again! If you want a yorkie - and who wouldn't??? - do your research, prepare your daughter and search out a good breeder who can give you a healthy dog. I have a very small yorkie (3.5#) and a very rambucious 6 year old son. He was prepared and trained on how to deal with the dog. The funny thing is that any time Chewy has been stepped on or hurt, it has been by an adult, never my son!!! What better way to help your daughter respect animals and deal with her fears than by bringing a lovely little pup into our home.
Each child is an individual and you will definitely find a breeder who will underestand that. Keep looking in the for sale section and maybe talk to a vet or rescue organization in your area. The right puppy is out there for you