[MandiesMom]

I just wanted to pop in here and say/suggest a couple of things and then I will leave it at that.

First, I think it is great that you actually came here looking for help with your situation. THAT proves that you love Mia.

With that said, do what is best for Mia. She didn't choose you...you chose her. She fell in love with her human. She did what she was supposed to do. If changes in your life have so drastically changed to the point that Mia cannot be given the loving attention she NEEDS from you, then do the loving thing and find a better home for Mia.

The fact that she is caged for that long every day is not right by any stretch of the imagination. Rooms with couches and beds can be closed off or gated off. Cage the furniture. She doesn't have to sleep in your bed to get what she needs. Bobbi suggested an xpen in your bedroom. That's a perfect compromise. A dog walker is another perfect answer..this gives human interaction, especially during your busy work months.

If you can't do those things I just stated, then love her enough to find her a home that can give her the time and attention she, not only was given and had yanked away from her, but that she needs. Why would she not whine, bark, and act out? Of course she is. She's being neglected...you might not realize it, but she is. You love her..then do what's best for her. If she doesn't fit in your new life...give her a new life. What she has now is a solitary confinement death sentence.

I am being honest and trying to help. I wouldn't even have posted if I didn't believe you wanted to help Mia. All I can do now is pray that you take our advice. And, again, thank you for asking (many wouldn't).