I say time is your friend here. Bailey (a he) bonded to me quickly. He wouldn't spend much time with Natalie. It hurt her feelings. It's been well over a year now and he's warmed up to her considerably. He definitely chooses my lap when we watch some tv in the evenings. But he now spends time with her in her office upstairs during the day. In fact, last year at this time, he wouldn't leave my side. At this very moment, he's with her in the other room.
So there is light at the end of the tunnel. Can't say when, but all you can do is continue to try. |