only because a friend put a whole group of us college friends on a website where you rate people if you think they are hot or not... All of a sudden I'm getting TONS of emails from people I don't know... My other friend mentions to me that she's on there as well... Our friend wouldn't take my pic off the site. So after awhile I looked at the emails and my husband had thought I was "hot".. so for a year we talked on the phone, then I went to TN to visit him..2 years later we got married... We've been married now for a year and a half....