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Originally Posted by mylittletigger My friend, Lauren, and I worked together at Petsmart in the pet care dept. and hung out like sisters. Well one day she showed me a picture of her older brother who I thought was really cute. She said "really??? He's never had a girlfriend." like she was surprised someone would find him attractive. well at the time he was in the air force stationed in Hawiaii.(sp) but he got out and moved to vegas and we begun talking. One night we even had a four hour phone call about needless chit chat. for a little while we had been talking about meeting up, then one night after work he called me and said that he was on his way up to Petsmart. I said ok, that I'd wait for him. At the time I had a boyfriend who had decided moving away was best for him to cali, and I thought well there's nothing wrong with having male friends. So we met up, went to his house and talked for a little bit.(he knew I had a boyfriend at the time) and nothing more happened. I left and we met up agian the next night and talked (only this time he tried to seduce me. didn't work. I'm extremely faithful. even my aunt has tried to get me to cheat.I was in a really bad relationship at that point in my life but not with the one who moved away) I left and called my boyfriend who had moved away and told him that I felt a strong connection with this guy and that I wasn't sure as to what to do. He said that maybe we should just be friends. I decided that since he lived so far away that was the best option. and from then on John and I have been together. It's now been one year and three months. I love him with all my heart and have even thought of asking him to marry me. But I'm his first girlfriend and we're young so I'm unsure of what I should do. don't men need to get out their wild oats??? I know I have, but he hasn't that I know of. |
I got married when I was 19 because I met my soulmate and I KNEW it. He is still the love of my life and I haven't had any second thoughts in 18 years. I think you KNOW it when you've found the one...If you are the ONE, then he probably doesn't need to sow his wild oats....the question is: is he the ONE for you?