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Originally Posted by DBlain  I don't mean to add anymore to this thead, because there is no doubt I have had to much to say, but i did want to add I think Carmen is great, i only used her as an example trying to prove a point that we never gave the OP a chance so I hope no one read this wrong, I think Carmen is not a good and ethical breeder. |
you see ladies this is what happens when we let our passion go high and Hot, I KNOW Donna did not mean what she wrote above, she is a good caring person, but when we feel so hot about something so delicate as BREEDING a dog is, misunderstanding are always at the door, if I was a new breeder here I will be furious, first it was said that I am not a show breeder, YES I AM, I don't show yorkies, but my daughter DOES show silkies, I never brag here because this is a YORKIE board, and my yorkie Prada is just a PET, My puppy parents, for those of you that are curious, about my breeding puppies, the owner are very happy I have a facebook page for my silkies and parents post there all the time for the world to see.. and finally ladies, please let it go, ethical breeding is a wonderful idea, but is really UP to each breeder and their RIGHT to breed their dogs, some people do it right and do their homework and learn, and get a mentor and so on, others think that putting two dogs together and letting "MOTHER NATURE" do her thing is the right way, and then when they find themselves in a deep jam, then they run for help, Thank God, for the internet, that now help can be given to them fast and most of the time save the life of the mom and the litter, you might not agree with this but think about it, is the Right thing to do.. and with that said, Donna yes my box is overflowing,and I appreciate every single one, Taylor, to you girl, no offense but take a breather and think what if you needed help and people would just jump on you with critizing and not really the detailed help you need.. just think about it , the more critical you are of a newbie the more defensive and the less chance of helping and teaching them a lesson , everyone deserves a chance you have no idea how many breeders from here I have turned into NON breeders, but I do it in private and by making them understand how hard it is, for them and the mama dogs..
I am not telling you to stay in a corner and be invisible but is a time and place for everything, and if you just welcome a person, give them a little help and then when they are ready tell them why is that you feel is wrong to do what they did , the person is more receptive of your help, also remember this is written, people can't get the tone of which you are posting, they only read harsh words, not the caring tone that you might be using..
hugs to all and have a good day..