The only chart we used with very good success was a Potty Chart. My daughter loves putting the stickers on her chart. As far as cleaning up, my daughter is not so good. I also use the trashbag, I tell her if I have to pick up her toys they will be put in the trash. A few times she tried calling my bluff, until I really picked up her toys and put them in the trash can. You want to talk about a crying session, but she cleaned up & we discussed why her toy went there & then I give it back. She no longer call my bluff. If something gets really out of hand, time outs do work for her.
Desiree
