one more thing. i know people say it's settling and at times i admit i felt like i did..but looking back today i wouldnt be where i am today without the challenges...the adversity and the pain ive faced (not just dh but all of lifes curveballs). i love who i am today and without all those bumps and pot holes along the road with my dh i wouldnt be me. dont get me wrong if tony were mentally or physically abusive that would be different i wouldnt think you should stay one minute longer. my father beat my mother and if jason ever touched me i wouldve left before he could turn his head and he knew that. i just think you are put where you are for a reason and there is always a lesson to learn from it.
i agree with everyone that you have to do what is best for your soul carmen and i hope you and tony can find a common path that works for both of you. leaving someone doesnt always lead you to the road of self worth...you have to find it yourself no matter who you sleep next to or not next to. know your worth and demand the respect you deserve.
__________________ Cedric N Lola N Keylo   RIP Punkee Princess |