I'm 26 years old. I have been married for 4 years. We have lived together for 6-7 years. I'm the messy one in the house. When I worked we would pretty much 50-50 the chores. The house would be a little messy but now that I'm not working I do most of the chores. With that being said.
My husband still puts his dirty clothes BESIDE the laundry basket. There are ALWAYS shoes all over the house. Although I got plastic containers by each door for the shoes. My husband plays video games too and has to be up to speed on all electronics. My husband always looks over everything. (Ex: He fed the cat and dog each others food while I was gone for 5 days even tho the containers have their names on them) But my husband puts me first on everything. I'm sure... he could come up with a bigger list then this for me. If you don't love the life your in... it is never to late to get out. After reading this thread.... I'm sad and happy. Sad that people go through things like this. And I'm happy that I have the best husband.
__________________ Ann & Milo, Buttons, Dooley, Mr. Bigglesworth, &  Crimson The righteous care for the needs of their animals, but the kindest acts of the wicked are cruel. Proverbs 12:10 |