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Originally Posted by Carmeow  I just talked to him. He said exactly what I wrote here and predicted..."what do you want me ti say?" I ama mess right now and dont know what to do. I told him how I feel...hr sat in silence and only made comments to drfend himself. I excused myself to come to bed and now Im laying here reading some of your PMs and crying. I told him I wrote this here ans I hope he reads it and all of your replies. Isn't he embarrassed? Wouldn't you think he would want to cjange?
I think its not too much too much to ask for. Having a guy help out because he wants yo, not because he is told to. Seems I am not alone and this is what women have to settle for. It is sad. I admit it. I can't leave him so I will have to work on myself, accepting that this is who he is and if I really love him, I would be okay with having to pick up after him. I have yo say...I wanted to get married asap, wanted kids...now I'm rethinking it if this is who he is. I can date a boy. I won't marry a boy. If he wants to get married sometime down the road he will have to choose to grow up. I'm not marrying anything less than a man. Going to try to sleep now. Ijust need space from him and everything else. I feel lost. |
And I hope he doesn't come here and read that because you just gave him the ok to keep treating you like a slave that must wait on her man child... Do you really want to be?? 38 great job college educated and because of a man I have gave up my dreams of what I really wanted in life and now just settle??