Oh I saw my husband change and we had neither been in a relationship before. He started changing within the second year when I was pregnant and I think he just felt so sorry for me, bless his male, male heart. So I had that going for me in that I got pregnant fairly early in our marriage and the, he just kept it up because after Danny came, we both had extra work. Plus, he decided if he wanted a clean house and to stay out of the poor house from my "rewards" for myself, it was easier to just not leave things around. I'm a tidyphile I have to have things tidy or go and drive everyone nuts. I can't stand things out of place!
__________________  Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |