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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly  Some do change for the better though as they age and become more aware of the things they totally overlook as younger males. And years of "working on" them helps, too. They find it's just easier in the long run to pick up than have to listen to one more sigh or lecture or pay for one more extravagance you bought to pay yourself back for the backache you got picking up their stuff. It never fails to amaze me, though, how a man can walk by something lying on the floor or a loaded garbage sack by the back door without ever seeing either! |
But in order to change, you have to have LIFE changes. He's 21 and been in 1 serious relationship.
Now, I've known people to marry their HS sweethearts and they were able to grow together because both were willing. I don't see that happening here.
IMO, he seems to want a caregiver rather than a life partner.