You are young, I honestly wouldn't take that crap. You have been with him 5 years… so I highly doubt he is going to change. I would tell him he has one chance- if he doesn't change within a certain amount of time you are out- No woman should have to tell their man to take a shower. I’m sad for you- hopefully he changes or you find someone that treats you how you should be treated... They are out there- you just have to look and not settle.
Also stop mothering him- Don’t do his laundry, don’t clean up after him. Like I tell my friend… why would he want to change when you do and pay everything for him? ( she kinda has the same boyfriend and she pays all his bills!)
I have been with my DH for almost 7 years- with us it is 50/50 and I think that is how it should be.
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Last edited by lovespandp; 01-08-2013 at 04:15 PM.
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