HAHAHA ! Those men .....I think at a certain age we ALL need to be on something...especially THEM !
I never got hot flashes but did get all that stuff early ....I'm on Lexapro now because of other 'symptoms' of women in their 40's & I think coping with my husbands illness has taken it's toll....and I just want the old me back ....
Good luck finding something to control those flashes - I hear they're awful....
there is also Estravan sold over the counter that you may want to try ?