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Originally Posted by lynzy420  The loss of a loved one, human or animal is very difficult for anyone. You are obviously suffering. You don't need a special kind of "counselor" etc., a therapist will be able to help you deal with this obviously tremendous loss to you. Please get to a counselor or therapist and bring some relief to yourself, its much too heavy a load to carry alone for you. I am so sorry for your loss.
Also, as you must know by now, Brandi is irreplaceable. Please for the sake of the pups, don't bring anymore pups in to your home until you have properly grieved the loss of your sweet Brandi and are able to accept and love a pup for their unique qualities. I'm afraid you are trying to replace Brandi but hon that's not going to happen...she was one of a kind and very special. There are many special pups out there, all different but none just like Brandi allow yourself the space and time until your grief is replaced by peaceful happy memories that Brandi left for you, only then will you be able to accept another pup! God Bless you and heal your broken heart. |
You are right. I tried to put a bandaid on a major wound and it just didn't work out. My friends think I should get a different breed so it wouldn't always be compared to Brandi. But, I'm a Yorkie lover and have been since I was a child. Its just everything I see or do reminds me of my sweetie. And I use to hold her when I was on the computer. Now, its just me......