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Originally Posted by msyorktown  Wow...Movado watch...I got one a few years ago, love Movado! That one is a really nice one...now I want one of those Clarisonic systems as well! 
I just got word from my sister why I was not invited to Christmas dinner. She asked if I was being invited and was told NO she can have dinner with her family!  So my sister elected not to attend either. I have three sisters...close to one!
So like you I haven't heard from my mother...haven't really had her call me in over 5yrs...since Dad passed away. What I did to diserve this kind of treatment from my mother is beyond me! I know it hurts Alisha....I will give you the same advice Mark gave me....just leave it alone. One day he will need you...you may or may not be there when he does.
For me, I am the first born....it hurts like "H"...I was in tears when my baby sister told me....that is the last set of tears I will cry for the woman that gave me life. I have to let it go....for my own sanity and for my own happiness.... |
That is me when it comes to my mom...
My dad and I have always been close so this is just odd new thing for me, he was the first man in the state of Fl to win full custody of his child when I was three, my mom stopped coming around when I was around 6 or 7 but always knew how to find me and in the pass year has tried sending me FB messages on holidays or when she sees me on the local Ghost Hunting TV show that I ignore. He did text and say merry christmas and then later to say he was going to eat at my fav restuarent they were pulling in the parking lot then... Well gee thanks for the heads up because I am on one side of town and would need to make the 20 minute drive to my house drop off Guinness then the 25 minute drive to where you are, yea no way that is happening in time for me to get there so I said oh I wish I had known sooner I could make it but I will be at my house by the time you are finished.... Never heard another word and still have not. Now i have ALWAYS been very very very spoiled so maybe he is thinking I have no present to give her so it doesn't mater because he already purchased my puppy... But heck I have crap in my house for him and my stepmom and their puppy... And damnit his present is rather large and heavy taking up my diningroom so geezz you could at least come get it so I can put my table back where it belongs
so now I am still hurt you half a** made an effort to see me and because I have this huge heavy a** box taking up my dining room!!!!
ok finished venting now haha