I have a 2 yr old boy and a 5 yr old girl. When I first got Joey they were not allowed to pick him up or hold him. I would let them hold him close if they were sitting and we just went from there. Joey is a sturdy little guy and runs and jumps and plays with the kids and if things start getting too crazy I tell them to calm down or I put Joey in his crate until things are safer for him. Thats only happened twice that I can recall.
I also have a lab-mix. I got her before my son was born and my daughter was about his age. We adopted from the shelter and from day one I made sure they respected each others space. Carley has never barked or growled at any of us, and warmed up to Joey very fast. I think the whole situation has to be looked at when getting any kid of pets with your family. Not saying that it cant be done regardless, but it really depends on how much work you want to put into it.
Would I do it all over again? OF COURSE! Would I change anything...only that Joey snuggled more and Carley slept at the foot of the bed when she decides to sleep with us, instead of sharing our pillows! haha!!
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