I'm sorry for the loss of your precious kitty babies. Snickers is a senior, and seniors can have bowel and bladder issues. Baby diapers, with a hole cut for her tail, should help take care of her potty mistakes. It's not the best option, but sometimes it's necessary with our old girls. Remind hubby that someday he too will grow old. He wouldn't want you to get rid of him someday if he begins to soil himself.