Well, this aint going to sound so nice, but its just my opinion so dont take this personal. I have an easy saying, its MY way or the HIGHWAY, your baby has been with you for a long time, he either loves YOU BOTH or NOTHING. If ANYONE including MY husband would EVER have the guts to do ANYTHING whatsoever to my girls, i can betcha he's out before he can say "Jacksrabbit"
this is exactly what my husband says, if anyone ever has the nerve to lay a hand on our princesses he WILL end up in jail because he wont just give a "friendly warning"
I dont know why your baby slithers along the wall, but i can discribe it as "fear"

and her eyes being bloodshot

i wish i could help you, i hope someone here will be able to help you out more!!
Keep your baby safe!!
Good luck