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					Originally Posted by sandrag86  I am definitely okay with holding Lou'e, kneeling down and having kids pet him...the carrier thing is a good idea as well. I just hear that children "pat" them instead of "petting" them...and I am annoyed when people in general want to hold him all the time (strangers) and then I get pushed with kids holding him. He is too fragile! Geeze. He needs to grow a bit.
 I will have him acclimated to children for sure, but won't be going over any time soon to a house that is full of children with him.
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  It's true.  Children can pat, instead of pet.  I say gently,"Be gentle, sweetie."  And when they soften their touch, I say,"Yes, you are very good with Tatiana."  
 
 
Also, same here, I get requests to hold Tatian.  I always decline.  I simply say,"No, Tatiana would get really scared."  With children, I would offer instead that they could pet her ANY TIME (when she's in the pouch).  Just let me know (and I will kneel).