Well I don't think any of us really know her situation at home, except that she works and has a newborn and another child. Lord knows what she may be going through... atleast she has us as a support group and assistance.
Personally, I would do as the others, drop everything and go...wherever whenever!
But my boys are grown and my husband knows that my boys and my Lils are #1 -he came into the marriage knowing this.
Let's keep the faith and believe God is watching over this and all will be well