My 'kids' are all grown...I still buy for them, my twin neice and nephew get something from auntie Jacqui, those are my baby sisters' kids and we are close so I buy for them. I have two other sisters and a brother. Brother lives in NY and his daughter, and granddaughter live in Atlanta...nope nothing for them, another sister lives in Baltimore with her hubby and two kids, sorry nothing for them either...last sister lives not too far from me, but I haven't spoken to her in years, so no, nothing.
I have dozens of cousins and they all have kids, but I don't buy for them either.
It would be waaay to expensive to buy for everyone...for me anyway, so I limit my gift buying to those I'm closest too, that includes my God daughter.
If you aren't particularly close to your second cousins I don't feel you are obligated to buy for them...they will get plently from other members of the family. JMO |