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Originally Posted by gemy  Oh dear one. My heart ached when I saw this post. It is almost useless for me to say don't feel guilty. But there were other posters to that thread, this woman was/is an adult and made a decision for her pet.
Neuter/spay surgery is mostly safe, given an experienced vet taking the proper precautions. (an "unknown!")And you shared that information!
This happenstance was very unusual, which doesn't mean it wasn't tragic; which it is.
(((((((hugs Judy)))))))))))) |
Thank you, my friend.....
Everything I think, do, say, teach, preach,or scold people about, is garnered from experiences that I personally have lived thru with my own babies, or someone very close to me has had happen and I witnessed. This lesson just adds to my entire "portfolio", and I seldom make the same mistake twice.....That experience taught me I must be very careful with cavalier attitudes, taking
"unknowns" for granted, when I come here and tell people that may not have had the experiences with these babies as I have, they are looking for assistance, guidance and direction, based on what we know, what we have learned. I will instruct and educate, with facts and links and stats....Going forward, I will be very, very cautious with the expression, "Go ahead and do it, and dont worry, your baby will be fine"....I dont want to ever again feel like I possibly misled someone into making a decision because I said their baby "would be fine"........