I asked the same question. Best answer: you will know in your heart. Dont see it as trying to replace. Just allowing another love in your life. I wasnt even looking for a new baby. I was on my quest to find my stolen Choppa and there was Maxximus. We still call him Choppa by mistake but hey we are still in live no matter where he is.
__________________  Mom to Shanti, Choppa & Maxximus. |