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Originally Posted by msyorktown Maybe I don't qualify, but since the OP asked on an open forum I too have the right to post....My grammy always said 'when you ask a question, be prepared for an answer' , You will not always get the answers you are looking for, but you WILL get an answer. |
Lets see Jacqui you have had toddlers and have 3 sweet fur babies yes you qualify

I agree with your Grammy
As I have suggested earlier a couple of times to the OP check around YT there are many alternatives and positive methods of training.