Oh Tracy...yet another victim. As you know I'm a suvivor of Domestic Violence...I suffered through for 16yrs. My ex served 6mths. Sadly these offenders dont serve enough time for the violence their victims suffer. The physical scars heal...the emotional scars...well that is a different story.
Myself and my children went to counseling after the 'last' beating that landed him in jail...sadly the scars remain. Especially my daughter who has developed a 'dont trust no man' attitude. Myself I have healed somewhat and have learned to trust and love again....it took me 10yrs and another failed marriage...I had a large support system, that saw me through..I am forever grateful that they were there when I so needed them.
I am glad your friend like myself survived, and thrilled that she too has a support system. She needs you all right now and in the months to come.
I no nothing of the justice system in the States...hopefully he will serve more than a year...sorry I hope he rots in jail!! There is a saying that has become my creed...'What don't kill you will make you stronger'. Praise God that she survived!! Thank you Tracy for being there for her, you and the church are her rock.
I'm in tears reading your post, I am praying hard for your friend and her children...The Lord will guide them.
Too many memories....I'm so sorry Tracy...so very sorry!
Those poor babies having to witness that...dear God...sorry I can't type anymore....so sorry... |