This is a good thread.
I think people become passionate about what they believe and get carried away sometimes. Im no different. Many times Ive seen things said I just dont respond too, I used to get bent out of shape pretty easy or get my feelings hurt but I try not to now. Sometimes I see posts that bother me, not so much as for myself, but for someone elses feelings now. I think "How would that make me feel?" Before I post I really do try to "put on their shoes"
We all have different views on things and its okay. I think someones views alot of times come from experience. In example some breeders would never feel comfortable releasing any of their babies at 8 weeks but some ( not all) of mine I feel comfy with it so they go home and they have done very well. Its been a good experience for me and the owners but if it became a problem, I would adopt a new policy for the sake of the puppies and owners.
Ive seen threads where websites have been critiqued and I cringe, I think "Oh please I hope I dont see a thread about how horrible a breeder I am or how my dogs are unkept or or or " but you just cant make everyone happy and you can only do what you think is right. It comes from experience and if you have the right intentions , a good heart, and the willingness to learn then you are on the right track.
I was given some very good advice from some of the old timers on here quite some time ago (not meaning old I mean wise..ladies and gents!....lol) "do what you think is right, learn from experience, and dont be afraid to change policies if they dont work, and get a tougher hide"
For many months Ive had yorkietalk on my helpful links page and it will remain, although people will see threads in contradiction to what I may practice or think, its a great place to learn. Lots of very knowledgeable people here. Heck they may decide to go with another breeder from here instead of me......."would that be offensive to me?"........NOPE.........because people need to go with what feels good to them and stick to their belief systems.
Ive adopted alot of good advice from here into my young program and IM sure I will learn more and I am very grateful.
Forcing ones personal beliefs or practices on another doesnt seem to have much success. Gentle guidance or a well meaned suggestion has a much better success rate I think. |