does she say this in front of anyone else, like if you are with a friend.
I am not sure why you can not be honest and polite at the same time. write something down and have it ready the next time she passes the comment.
I would say something like. weight is always a stuggle, especially with us women so please don't take this personally but it makes me feel bad and unconfortable when you continue to bring up my weight when we cross paths. If that does not cure her, you could say later, I am confused because I was hoping that when I explained to you that weight talk makes me uncomfortable you would understandand and not continue to bring it up any longer, is there a reason that you feel you need to. |