I knew a woman who would always focus on my weight when we ran into each other. This woman was always struggling with weight loss. I have to say I never got angry about her comments. I actually felt sorry for her. I knew this was a topic that was painful for her so she was a bit preoccupied with others weight.
Maybe you could try commenting something along the lines of, "I didn't really notice until you pointed it out, but thank you for your concern." and try to have a smile when saying it.
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