[concretegurl]

For the OP sorry for the typos my stinking cell phone.

When our cginchilla was pts even though my daughter is almost 6 years older than my son her persobality is very different.

My son at 4 years old went to the vets with me to have Gooby put down. He cried with me and he was told by the vet how as part of having a pet sometimes we have to love them so much we can help them say goodbye.

My son handled it well. We answered all his questions. I went through debating my partening choice to expose him to it the whole time. My son thanked the vet for ending Gooby's tummy ache pain (he had already had one surgery for a turned stomach which twisted again a week after comming home). It was the right choice. I would still not take my daughter at 13 to this type of apointment, she's a strong girl but this is not something she needs to see.

Its so hard being a parent of both skin and furkids.

My heart too really aches for your situation. Its never easy.