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Chachi: Your message just gave me another reason to point out to dh that it would not be best for us. While i am sure he would not cheat and he knows i will not do not like an atmosphere where it could happen.

I would rather spend the money (though not a lot) each year on other things. I would rather take a class or something. If dh wants to join, i will join with him so i can go at times. I have anxiety attacks when around a lot of people, esp if i do not know them well.
For some reason, it just does not set well with me. something is nagging at me about them.

I told dh the quote (i think from Mark Twain) about how he would not want to belong to a club that would take him as a member.