My bro in law and his wife were invited to join by her mom's friend. They have asked to join once they do. They checked it out on one of their bingo nights and kinda liked it. My dh thinks it would be good to join so we could get out with other people more. I do not know if my anxiety about being with strangers is the reason but some red flags are waving at me.
1. One of the things that you are suppose to do as a member is keep recruiting others. I hate this just as i hate people coming to my door to sell things
2. The women are in an auxiliary as the women of the moose. It makes me think that the women are not as important or as my mom said, the women do all the work behind the scenes and the men get the credit.
3. The school and retirement communities sound weird almost like a compound to me. These are their charities.
4. something was mentioned about a privacy policy. Not sure i want to be a part of something where they want some activities private.
If anyone here is a part of this sorry if i offended you. I just want some opinions. Dh said up to me. It would be nice for him as they have a pool (he loves to float in a pool, i am scared of the water) and they have organized motorcycle rides (he rides, i do not though he said he would rather not ride as a group except on the toy runs at christmas.
You guys usually tell me what you think. So let me hear it.
