People can be very cruel at times. Sorry you have gone through this. We need to have more compassion with each other because we all were at a beginning stage of learning and will continue learning. No one knows it all even though some people think they do. If we put our self in the place of the one we are downing maybe people would see things in a different light. I had someone hurt me sooooo bad on another forum years ago because I didn't go in with my first schnauzer we lost to have him put down. I have 2 granddaughters that are nurses, and a son that is a paramedic and here I am I can't stand nothing. Espically an animal suffering and more so when its mine. My dh and I both were hurting and for someone to be so hurtful at a time like that is unbelieveable. I cried for weeks but even the vet told me she did not want me to see him. So when we start to judge we need to look at the circumstances behind things. Cruelity is another thing. That is one thing I can not stand and I cannot keep my mouth shut when I see an animal being abused. But, that is a total different thing. Don't go anywhere, just keep learning and over look those that show themselves for what they are. |