Years ago when I first got married I had a little 2 year old Maltese. When the first baby came home the Maltese was allowed to sniff the baby and get to know him. She would sit right beside me as I fed the baby and she followed me around as I did things around the house. I was blessed enough to be able to stay home with my kids when they were young so I was always there to make sure things were peaceful and I have always been a big peace keeper in the family. No mean words or actions towards people or animals allowed. The kids were taught to always be gentle around the dog and they pretty much ignored her as they got older. Sasha was my little girl and stayed as such all her life. She was always at my side and adjusted well to all the changes she faced over the years.....even the addition of a large breed dog. She maintained her position as first dog.
No dog should be left alone to fend for it's self with young kids. Of course a small dog is in bigger danger of injury. If a dog nips in order to defend it's self or because it is afraid it is the fault of the caretaker. The dog should never be put in that position to begin with. Dogs and kids can and should get along together peacefully but it is the responsibility of the caretaker to make sure both are trained and protected properly. |