Harry's very butch and doesn't really like being fiddled about with....
I actually use our old-fashioned white muslin dish-cloths on his face as they're so incredibly soft (yes, I do keep them separately from our own!)
It's probably completely wrong of me but, knowing his aversion to it, I started making a game of it....little gentle rubs with warm water all round his mouth area, softly, softly
And now, after he's eaten his dinner, he actually waits by the kitchen door, waiting for our little after dinner game. Good luck Nicky
Sally + Harry x