I have heard from the new family a couple of times in the form of short texts and it sounds like it is going really well. She is starting to become her sweet and affectionate self with her new mommy! (
at new mommy, but also
at liking her new mommy) so this seems like it is going to work out. They seem more afraid that I will "take her back" if they say anything about her being bad than wanting to give her back. I still don't want to say it is permanent until she has been there longer and they have had a chance to see more of her personality. Though if she isn't around any other dogs hopefully she wont ever have to see her true bad side.
I have extreme mixed emotions about the whole situation. I miss her deeply, but I truly think she will be happier. And my poor bf was crying the day after she went to live with at the new home when he was trying to sleep.
she was the first real pet that was (almost) his. Somi even seems sad though she was the one being attacked. And I know my Joli must be sad missing us. But I know in the long run we will all be much less stressed and it will be a better situation. (though the only ones that seem only happy about the situation are my roommates cats, which have taken full advantage of Joli being gone by constantly roaming my room and eating Somi's food. They always think they are starving and Somi is not nearly as territorial as Joli. Stinking cats)
Thanks for everyone for the good thoughts and prayers. And thanks ladyjane snd YHR for all the help the last few months!