[gemy]

My heart truly goes out to you and Cassie. And for Muffin too.

In terms of bed time; could you put her in a crate and then put the crate on your bed so she could be with you?

In terms of Muffin and Cassie being together, try walking them out on leads together. Also a swimming pool is wonderful exercise, first one by one, and then together. Swimming will cushion all the joints, and even cushion a dog bumping into the other.

Just one other thing, do not ever second guess your decision on non surgery; you did make the best decision for your dog, and your life.

Hugs to you